What is a great or a good mother? This time we want in the time and see what others thought about this subject.
Proverbs: Train a child in the way he should go as if he is old he will not depart from it.
Ancient Sparta: Plutarch informed us that babies Spartan taught to "avoid" finicky about their food, to not be afraid of the dark, not to weep or rage.
Cicero: "The times are bad. Children no longer obey their parents, and everyone is writing a book."
Calvinists:Viewed as a power struggle between a child sin child and the parent. Physical punishment was used to ensure that the parent company won this battle.
John Watson: Parents told not to hug or kiss their children and do not let it sit in your lap. "If you must, kiss them once on the forehead when she good-night. They shake hands to say in the morning."
Benjamin Spock: "The more people have different methods of raising children, the more they have to come to studyConclusion that what good mothers and fathers instinctively feel like it is for their children the best, after all. "
So a good mother is:
[Please choose]
• Trainers
• a punisher
• unemotional
• instinctive
And: "Everyone is a book to write." Yes they are. Over time there have [and was still] books tell you what a great parent, [and] does not and how to educate your child. The message is that if you follow the recommendations of the ParentingAuthor - you will be the great mother. But as each author has different advice - how on earth a parent does not know the author about what makes a great parent to trust?
The simple answer is: trust, but none of them take what feels correct and meet all of your own decisions. A large parent is the one who loves her child, knows and accepts that they make too many mistakes in their upbringing and that this is in order.
There is a quote from Les Brown: "Shoot for the moon. Even if youMiss you will land among the stars. "
Sun aspire to be a good parent - - but not aiming to please, to have a great or perfect child. This is your child a choice. Great parents are the ones that an environment in which the child can develop to its fullest potential and learn their own decisions are taken. A large parent knows and understands that they can not force, size and perfection of her child.